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Create more alternatives. The quality of a decision is limited by the alternatives we consider.

In this video, you'll learn how creative brainstorming and merging ideas into hybrids helps to find the best decision. Often, the best alternatives are those that combine two or more options.

We can’t choose an alternative we haven’t thought of! Many people assume they have few or no alternatives. Yet there usually are many more alternatives than appear at first glance. Sometimes, we don’t like the alternatives that are immediately apparent.

An alternative is one of the possible courses of action available. Without alternatives, we have no decision. Good alternatives are (1) under our control, (2) significantly different, (3) potentially attractive, and (4) doable.

The quality of a decision is limited by the alternatives we consider – we can’t choose an alternative we haven’t thought of! Many people assume they have few or no alternatives. Yet there usually are many more alternatives than appear at first glance. Sometimes, we don’t like the alternatives that are immediately apparent. In both cases, we need to talk to and brainstorm with friends whose experience and judgment we respect, or we need to make wish lists – anything to get our creativity stimulated so we can envision alternative ways to address our decision.

How to generate creative alternatives

Ask Yourself

  • What are my alternative courses of action?
  • Are any potentially good alternatives not on the list?
  • What alternatives might others consider that I have missed?
  • Who might help me create better alternatives?

​Ask your head

  • Are my alternatives logical (e.g., including not deciding now and revisiting the decision later)?

Ask your heart

  • Do my alternatives consider others I care about?
  • Do my alternatives seem to be a complete set?
  • What other alternatives might I consider?
  • What might someone I trust and admire do?

​Tools and good practice

  • Brainstorming
  • Conversations with others
  • Wish lists
  • Creativity methods

How to apply the creative alternatives concept to choosing a college

Ask yourself:

  • Are there any options that are not on my list (community college first, delayed attendance to take a gap year, taking classes from more than one school)?

Ask your head:

  • What would happen if I didn't accept any school?
  • Do I need to get any more information to help me choose?

Ask your heart:

  • Which options immediately make my heart feel warm and bright-eyed?

Recommendations:

  • Find ways to talk with people who attend or have recently attended each of your school options.
  • Find a way to visit each school, even if it's by finding someone currently there who takes you on live tour over the phone.
  • Learn about life beyond each campus: eating establishments, convenience of amenities, local activities and culture, etc.
  • Visualize a typical week at each school and consider what information you might still be missing.

Traps to avoid:

  • Assuming no alternatives exist
  • Getting bogged down – too many alternatives, too many minor variations
  • Considering alternatives that are not doable
  • Accepting unnecessary limits to alternatives
  • Forgetting the “do nothing” alternative

Featured Decision Guides

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Commit to Follow Through

Commitment to follow through means that you are set to execute on your decision. It's like pulling an internal switch, and you'll do whatever it takes to make your decision real. You're ready when you're prepared with all the necessary resources like time, effort, money, and help from others. You should also ready to overcome obstacles and have a plan B prepared.

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